Throughout my childhood I struggled with the one thing that seemed to come easy for
everyone else which was to fit in; Whether it was with soccer or just school in general I never fit
in with the right crowd. I was never good enough, smart enough, or funny enough to be included.
As a child I was made fun of for my size and my lack of athletic ability; whether it was my
coaches or fellow students nobody wanted to include me.
Growing up it was tough for me to make friends due to my lively personality, which most
of the time was viewed as annoying. On top of the constant bullying and feeling of being
unwanted, my home life also became challenging. At a young age my grandma had started to
develop dementia then at the age of 9 my family made the decision that she would live with us
full time. At the age of 11 I started to help out with the caretaking of my grandma. As a kid it
was really tough on me not only because of the responsibility, but because I had to watch the
kindest person I know turn into a stranger in front of my eyes. The responsibility of taking care
of my grandma helped me learn compassion and mature overall as a person whether it was in
school or on the soccer field. It taught me how to stay on top of things, think through certain
situations, and most importantly to not take life for granted.
Although I had this going on in my home life, another large portion of my life was
consumed up by soccer. I have played soccer since I was 5 years old and at the age of 9
developed my love for goalkeeping, Although, I did not really start devoting my time to soccer
until my freshman year. Freshman year I was one of two players from my grade to make Junior
V arsity which was a pretty big accomplishment at the time. This came with a high level of
expectations for a kid who had never had someone take a chance on him in such a meaningful
way.. Everyday I had to improve to prove they made the right decision and it paid off. My
sophomore season I became the starting varsity goalie, Although, this was a monumental
accomplishment I quickly learned the struggles of being the goalkeeper. Every other position on
the field is allowed to make a few mistakes per game and just easily forget about it; However, for
a goalie one mistake can cost the team the game which can really deplete your confidence. As a
young keeper it took me a while to learn how to combat the underappreciation for being a goalie,
but at the end of my junior year I finally felt as if I learned how to handle the pressure. If there is
one thing being a goalie has taught me, it is that mistakes are inevitable and you can either learn
from them and improve or just let them consume you. This new mentality has allowed me to not
only become a better player, but as a person.
Having to witness my Grandmas succumb to dementia, it opened my eyes to the true
value of life. In order to live life to the fullest you have to live, learn and grow from your
mistakes and realize that as long as you don't let it define you, it's not the end of the world. I’ve
faced many challenges in my life and what I am most proud of is that everytime I chose to rise
rather than fall. There was many times I was brought to my knees, literally, but I made the choice
to face my challenges head on. The totality of my life experiences have prepared me well for my
next chapter.
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