What happens you realize you have a paradoxical personality and approach to life? You accept it. You embrace
it. You own it. The dictionary defines a paradox as "a statement that is seemingly contradictory or opposed to
common sense and yet is perhaps true." Our world is filled with many contradictions. To see and understand them
is to be enlightened.
In preparing for a recent calculus test, it was important to stay calm and collected, while maintaining positive
energy to complete several practice equations. I can better focus my energy to study and problem solve if I do not
panic. Whether it's a complex math problem or balancing a heavy academic load, refocusing my energy and
remaining collected, sets the foundation to a successful academic career. Paradoxical trait number 1: calm and
energetic.
I am emotionally invested in both school and swimming. I care deeply about being a successful student-athlete.
Each year, I set goals and objectives for academics and swimming and set a plan in motion to achieve these
goals. There is no easy path to success and sometimes I stumble. I may have missed a certain score on my test
or just missed a best time in swimming. During these times of frustration, I am also clear eyed and understand my
situation. I recognize the need to course correct my study habits, while keeping up with my training, so I can reach
my long term goals. Paradoxical trait number 2: passionate, yet rational.
Brainstorming a solution to a problem is an example of divergent thinking. Convergent thinking is systematic and
logical, like answering questions on the SAT. I teach swim lessons and water safety to small children during the
fall and summer seasons. One particular child was fearful of the water and did not want to get in the pool to start
her lesson. By adjusting my usual approach, I decided to begin with a fun simple game outside of the water. Then
we practiced kicking her legs. She finally entered the water, but still felt safe and had fun by 'blowing water
bubbles". A few weeks later, my student was swimming 15 feet across the pool without stopping. She overcame
her fear and I learned something along the way. By thinking out-of-the-box to help a new swimmer overcome her
fear, showed me that looking at a situation and finding the best approach can open other possibilities and there is
more than one way to solve a problem. Paradoxical trait number 3: convergent and divergent thinker.
Understanding my built-in paradoxes has allowed me to grow as a person, student and athlete. Balancing between
these traits, challenges me in every day experiences, allows me to focus on my goals, and gives me space to
learn from my mistakes. I look forward to bringing this mix of drive, enthusiasm, and humility to my college career and other pursuits in life.
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