While playing water polo, my coach refers to me as a T-Rex; a lot of power behind little arms. I’m about 5’5” and weigh about 130 pounds. I’m the shortest among all of my friends and proudly hold the title of the smallest player on the team. Despite this, I still manage to come out on top. I defend and attack grown men three times my size, with a smile plastered on my face the entire time. It was not always like this. I’ve struggled, been beaten down and have almost drowned multiple times. But I always come back up. Water polo is not a game of brute strength and power. It is about perseverance and endurance, similar to what my life has been like.
Since I started playing, water polo has been an anchor for me. When times got tough and emotions got high, I could rely on the sport to keep me grounded. My dad has been a United States Marine for more than 25 years, and I have lived the military lifestyle for my entire life. This meant moving around and leaving behind friends and family. After seven moves, it became the norm. But, I didn’t always have water polo. I discovered it when my family moved to California, and it took me a whole year to even find it, and realize it was the sport meant for me. All of my life, I had gone from one sport to another - from karate to flag football, from tennis to soccer. I found water polo and began a journey that I am still traveling today. Although I had found my passion, I definitely was not a natural at it.
I swam for about four years before I transitioned to water polo, and it was anything but smooth. Compared to swimming, water polo was much more intense and required more endurance. Despite not having either of those attributes, I was committed to this brand new sport. I had no idea how the game worked or the rules, but I didn’t care. I just wanted to learn and play. In California, I was an average player. I made up for it through my leadership skills and innate ability to forge relationships. I never started in a game, and was barely substituted. But I kept trying. Every practice was an opportunity to get better, and I made it my mission to improve in any way I could. I still apply this principle to my life every day, almost five years later. I know I’m going to be poor in something, but I can’t be poor at it for the rest of my life. This outlook paid off, improving my skills, allowing me to become a mentor for those who also wanted to move outside of their comfort zone.
When I was in 8th grade, my family got the news that we never wanted to hear- we had to move to Rhode Island. There was no water polo team in Rhode Island, so I had to learn how to be patient. I decided to run to stay in shape and ended up making Varsity on the cross-country, outdoor track, and indoor tracks teams at my school. I still remained focused on my true passion. Despite not knowing when I would get to play again, I constantly trained on my own; I would be back to water polo eventually. Finally, we got the call to move to Florida.
I learned one thing quickly in Florida; the water polo players in California may have been better, but the Florida players were much bigger. As always, this didn’t bother me. I still played my heart out and played as if I were twice my size.
That’s what I like to equate my life to: a 250-pound teenager with a beard between me and the goal. I will always take that shot, no matter what.
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